A Letter To Mistress Feet

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Dear Mistress Feet,

I hope this letter finds you well. I am a 30 year old woman from Santa Monica, CA. I’m writing to ask for your opinion on a situation that has come up in my relationship. My boyfriend has recently expressed a desire for me to wear shoes to bed, specifically high heels. While I understand that this may be a fetish for him, I am not sure if this is something that I am comfortable with. I feel that if I wear shoes in the bedroom, he will begin to expect it all the time. I’m also afraid that he might want to escalate this into other weird stuff. He hasn’t given me any other strange vibes about anything else, but the shoes are getting to be a bit much. Everything else is going so well, I don’t want this to be a BIG RED flag and I ignore it.

I am not well-versed in the BDSM lifestyle and am unsure if this request is a dealbreaker for me. I would greatly appreciate any insight or advice you can provide on this matter.

Thank you for your time and consideration.


Concerned in Santa Monica

Mistress Responds

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Dear Concerned,

Thank you for writing to me about your concerns regarding your boyfriend’s preference for what is called “retifism”. Retifism is the fetish sexualization of footwear. It’s understandable that this might be confusing or concerning for you, but it is quite common in men.

Try to understand that sexual preferences are personal and can vary greatly from person to person. Your boyfriend’s preference for footwear in the bedroom is not right or wrong, it is simply a part of who he is. Keep in mind that communication is key in any relationship, and discussing your concerns and feelings with your boyfriend is essential in making sure that both of you are comfortable and satisfied.

It’s also important to remember that everyone has the right to explore their sexuality in a consensual and safe way. I recommend starting with small steps and discussing your desires with your partner. It is also a good idea to establish boundaries and safe words before engaging in any activity. If your boyfriend is interested in exploring his preference for retifism, it’s important to have open and honest conversations with him about it.

If you are feeling uncomfortable or unhappy with the current dynamics, it may be helpful to seek guidance from a therapist or counselor who specializes in sexual health and relationships.

Remember, it’s important to be open-minded and respectful of each other’s preferences and work together to find a solution that makes both of you happy.

Enjoy playtime,

Mistress Feet

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  1. I am a 72 year-old submissive black male who loves looking at pretty feet. I fantasize of being with a dominant Mistress worshipping her feet and smelling the insides of her house slippers.


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